
FAQs
Can I reschedule or cancel my session after I have paid my deposit?
Cancelling a WEEKDAY session with MORE THAN 96 hrs. notice (4 days): the deposit can be used toward a new session ONCE (within 4 weeks of the initial appointment). After 4 weeks, the deposit/tribute is forfeited. After a cancellation, I may require future deposits of 75-100% for future bookings.
“What is the Rush Fee / Next-Day Premium”?
What is the Rush Fee / Next-Day Premium?
1. Travel & Location Logistics
I divide my professional time between multiple regions of Los Angeles County, Orange County, and the San Fernando Valley, as well as between two homes situated in separate areas of Los Angeles. With advance notice, I can plan my schedule to be in the correct area ahead of your session. A next-day request often means significant, unplanned travel on my part.
2. Coordination Around Other Professional Responsibilities
3. “But I Was Ready to Book Several Days in Advance…”
4. If You’re A New Client
5. If You’re a Short Notice Kind of Guy
6. How to Avoid the Next-Day Premium
In short, booking in advance can truly make a meaningful difference. It avoids the premium and allows everything to be planned without rush so we can focus on the fun part. If budget is more of a priority for you than the convenience of planning last minute, reaching out earlier is the way to go.
I love what I do and take pride in doing it well. The premium simply reflects the additional effort required when timelines are compressed — whether you choose the convenience of short notice or the standard rate with more planning, I’m happy to make it happen. If the standard rate is important to you, contacting me at least one week in advance offers the best chance of securing availability several days out.
What is your deposit policy?
I require a deposit for all bookings.
Deposit is 50% for all bookings made more than 72 hrs. in advance.
Deposit is 100% for all bookings made with 72 hrs. notice or less.
This is to make sure you are committed, because I am!
For new applicants without any references, $50 of this deposit is due when submitting your application before I take the time to read it.
Do you offer FTT or “brown” session?
Yes! Below are my requirements for new clients wishing to book an FT session. My contact form will walk you through the process/options:
Option 1: provide a reference from at least one provider with whom you have done FT in the past.
Option 2 (for those with provider references but no FT experience): book a screening call with me so we can discuss your interest in FT and see if we are a fit.
Option 3: (for those with no provider references at all) book a non-FT session with me to start (gold OK). Subsequent sessions can include FT if/when you feel ready for it.
Do you have any ground rules?
My ground rules can be summarized as follows:
- During our scene, I will assume the dominant role and take control. This generally means that “I will do things to you, but you will not do things to me.” If this sounds hot to you, then you’re in the right place!
- Any climax or self-pleasuring (stroking etc.) will be under my total control and occur only with my authorization.
- I will respect your limits and you will respect mine. Requesting any of my off-limits, any nudity, “jobs” or sex during our communication or session will result in immediate dismissal/removal. All tributes will be forfeited.
- We will play with a safe word. Our exchange will be “safe, sane, consensual and ethical.” I join Damiana Chi PhD. in advocating for this updated BDSM motto, which adds the term “ethical” to the phrase (read more about it here.)
- Last but not least, our exchange is meant to be mutually fulfilling! Whether you need to please, have fun, want catharsis, exploration, degradation, release or healing; we are here to honor beautifully valid needs! My needs? I simply love control in all its forms.
What are your off-limits?
Currently, I do not engage in:
- Anything exposing my privates, unless it’s during toilet play (do not expect me to use face-dildos, tease/flash my parts etc.)
- Wrestling
- Any contact with my sensitive parts (including during toilet play).
- Touching me without permission
- Extreme rose-budding
- Shibari / advanced rope bondage
- Full service / Anything “jobs” / kissing / cuddling
- Any nudity on my part
Do you travel?
I travel regularly to San Francisco, New York City, and Paris, France. I occasionally travel to other cities in the US/World. See upcoming dates or sign up for an email alert HERE. Follow my X and sign up for my newsletter for updates.
FMTYs are reserved for those I know.
For outcalls outside of my immediate area, I require tribute for travel time, gear transport etc.
I submitted an application and have not heard back.
If you submitted a well-crafted and polite application containing ALL required information (and especially if you provided references), then there may be a technical glitch. You may email webmaster(at)dominasophie.com with your name, email and phone number to check the status of your application.
If you provided a VoIP instead of a real number, or any false information, or if you are flagged or black-listed by other providers, I will find out during my screening process and may dismiss your application / not respond.
What is your hair color?
I am currently a brunette. I change my hair color every few months.
Do you have any tattoos or piercings?
None; I do not have any tattoos or piercings.
What are your favorite activities?
I love to top people who love to bottom….watching my sub respond, obey and apply himself. This is very general…yes; I am always hesitant to answer this question with a list of “favorite activities” because I vibe with people who have vastly different kinks. I love a good human connection and exchange of power; keeping a partner in as vulnerable a state as is required to achieve a scene’s goals.
Are there any activities you do not engage in with first time visitors?
If this is your first time with me, there are a handful of activities I “save for later”. This is for the safety and comfort of all involved. I will consider these activities for select returning sub.
- Advanced breath play
- Suspension/inversion
- Additional scene participants (cuck, bi etc.)
Are your pictures recent?
99% of the photos on the site were taken in 2025 and 2026
What is your Tribute?
See my Tribute page.
What is your shoe size?
Yes and thank you. I am a 37 (Europe). I am a 7 in the US.
Do you take last minute appointments?
- Next-day appointment may be available. Premium will apply (rush fee) up to $500
- Sorry, no same-day appointments.
Do you allow diaper MESSING?
Yes! I love diaper play and allow diaper wetting.
I also allow diaper “full use” for a session premium. Fill out my application to request this.
What types of sessions do you offer?
Head to my Tribute page for a list of all offerings, in-person and remote. My preferred sessions are in-person BDSM play, of course. It’s why I am here!
No GFE types session. No sex or contact with my parts, ever.
Can I take a shower at your location?
Yes! The play-spaces I use have a full bath; however, be aware that time spent in the shower counts as session time, so book accordingly.
Can you conduct a session in French?
French is my native tongue, so the answer is yes!
Can we try some stuff I saw in your videos?
Usually yes! Just nothing that involves exposing my parts (unless doing toilet), and no contact with my parts. Some of my video scenes I will not replicate in sessions (no face dildos etc.)
How do I avoid scammers who pretend to be you online?
If new, contact me via my contact form on this site. I advertise on Tryst and DickieVirgin only. Both ads lead you back to my website’s application form. I never initiate contact via text or DMs and I do not respond to texts or DMs from new / unscreened / prospect clients. Once you fill out my application, I will respond by email from a @dominasophie.com address. I currently only use text for scheduling details and directions on the day of our appointment. My number is not public. I only respond to DMs on my Loyalfans. Only connect with me via the payment sites and social links listed on my website and you should be safe.
What sites are you on?
The only social media sites I currently use are Blue Sky (preferred), Twitter/X, IG & LinkedIn (links in footer). I also have a LoyalFans page for direct messaging. Follow me for free or subscribe to get a preferred rate for DMs. I have a Niteflirt page but I do not use it.
I am NOT on Fetlife. I do NOT sell clips C4S or IWC (only on LoyalFans). I do NOT use OnlyFans or Sextpanther. I only advertise on Dickie & Tryst (+ some French sites). If you see an ad using my name and pictures on any other sites, please alert me as this likely means that a scammer is trying to impersonate me. Thank you!
Are tips expected?
Tips are not expected but they are appreciated and leave great impressions!
Do you have a wheelchair accessible play space?
Yes! Some of the spaces I use in LA and OC are accessible.
What is a “devoted sub”?
This is just my way of referring to someone who serves me regularly.
Are you vaccinated against COVID 19 & Monkey Pox?
Yes and yes.
