FAQs

What are your off-limits?

Currently, I do not engage in:

• Anything exposing my privates unless we are doing toilet (do not expect me to use face-dildos etc. in session)
• Wrestling
• Any contact with my sensitive parts (including during toilet play).
• Touching me without permission
• Extreme rose-budding
• Shibari / advanced rope bondage
• Full service / Anything “jobs” / kissing
• Any nudity on my part

Do you travel?

I regularly travel to the Bay Area / San Francisco, New York City and Paris France. I occasionally travel to other cities in the US/World. See upcoming dates or sign up for an email alert HERE. No FMTY for first time clients.

I submitted an application and have not heard back.

If you submitted a well crafted and polite application containing ALL required info (and especially if you provided references), then there may be a technical glitch. You may email webmaster(at)dominasophie.com with your name, email and phone number to check the status of your application. Thank you.

What is your hair color?

I am currently a blond. I change my hair color every few months.

Do you have any tattoos or piercings?

None; I do not have any tattoos or piercings.

Can you conduct a session in French

French is my native tongue, so the answer is yes!

Do you have a wheelchair accessible play space?

Yes! Some of the spaces I use in LA and OC are accessible.

What are your favorite activities?

I love to top people who love to bottom….watching my sub respond, obey and apply himself. This is very general…yes; I am always hesitant to answer this question with a list of “favorite activities” because I vibe with people who have vastly different kinks. I love a good human connection and exchange of power; keeping a partner in as vulnerable a state as is required to achieve a scene’s goals. OK, with all this said: I love all forms of humiliation, CBT/BB, trampling, all feminization (with or without humiliation), chastity training, domestic role plays; all types of spankings, impact and sensory play. Last but not least, human toilets are some of my all time favorites.

Yes, always. 50% of tribute is due at the time of reservation. This is to make sure you are committed, because I am! For applicants without any references, $50 of this deposit is due before I even review/respond to their application.

Do you always require a deposit?

Can I reschedule or cancel my session after I have paid my deposit?

• Weekday rescheduling with AT LEAST 72 hrs. notice: the deposit can be used toward a new appointment day/time ONCE. I do not require that you pick a new date right away. If you need it, take time to look over your schedule, but the re-scheduled session should be within no more than 8 weeks from the initial appointment date. After 8 weeks, the deposit is forfeited.
• Weekday cancelling with AT LEAST 72 hrs. notice: the deposit will be forfeited. No additional tribute applies. If you wish to book again, I may require a 75% to 100% deposit.
• Weekday rescheduling or cancelling with LESS than 72 hrs. of notice: the deposit is forfeited and future bookings will require paying up to 100% of the tribute upfront as deposit. If cancelling within 24 hrs, I request full tribute be paid for the missed session.
• Weekend sessions: if you need to reschedule or cancel a weekend session, the deposit is automatically forfeited. I have too much demand for weekends and cannot make deposits transferable for these sessions, even with 72 hr advance notice. If you cancel within 24 hrs of a weekend booking, I request full tribute be paid for the missed session. After you have cancelled once, future bookings will require paying 100% of the tribute upfront as deposit.
• Sessions outside of LA (tours): same as weekends – see above
• Not showing up and not giving any notice (“no call no show”): full tribute is due and any privilege to contact me in the future is lost. The person’s name is added to a “no-show list” shared with other providers.

Do you have any ground rules?

My ground rules can be summarized as follows:

1. During our scene, I will assume the dominant role and take control. This generally means that “I will do things to you, but you will not do things to me.” If this sounds hot to you, then you’re in the right place!
2. Any climax or self-pleasuring (stroking etc.) will be under my total control and occur only with my authorization.
3. Our limits will be respected.
4. We will play with a safe word. Our exchange will be “safe, sane, consensual and ethical.” I join Damiana Chi PhD. in advocating for this updated BDSM motto, which adds the term “ethical” to the phrase (read more about it here.)
5. Last but not least, our exchange is meant to be mutually fulfilling! Whether you need to please, have fun, want catharsis, exploration, degradation, release or healing; we are here to honor beautifully valid needs! My needs? I simply love control in all its forms.

Are there any activities you do not engage in with first time visitors?

If this is your first time with me, there are a handful of activities I “save for later”. This is for the safety and comfort of all involved. I will consider these activities for select returning sub.

• Advanced breath play
• Suspension/inversion
• Additional scene participants (cuck, bi etc.)

Are you vaccinated against COVID 19 & Monkey Pox?

Yes and yes, fully vaxed (+ boosted x3 for COVID).

Are your pictures recent?

Over 90% of the photos on my site were taken in 2022-24

Do you wear your face covering veil during session?

I show my face during sessions.

Are tips expected?

Tips are not expected but they are appreciated and help leave a great impression!

What is a “devoted sub”?

This is just my way of referring to someone who serves me regularly.

Do you do full toilet scenes/training?

Yes, only with subs who are experienced and have references! Please expect no direct contact with my parts.

What is your Tribute?

My Tribute gives an idea.

What is your size and can I buy your shoes/lingerie?

Thank you, yes. My height is 159cm or 5’2″. I am a size “small” for panties, teddies and most lingerie. Measurements are 33, 25, 33. For shoes, I wear a 7 US (37 euro.)

What sites are you on?

The only social media sites I currently use are Twitter/X, IG & LinkedIn (links in footer). I also have a LoyalFans page (includes a video store). Follow me for free or subscribe to reveal my juicy timeline. I also have a Niteflirt page but am very rarely on.

I am NOT on Fetlife. I do NOT sell clips C4S or IWC (only on LoyalFans). I do NOT use OnlyFans or Sextpanther. I only advertise on Dickie & Tryst (+ some French sites). If you see an ad using my name and pictures on any other sites, please alert me as this likely means that a scammer is trying to impersonate me. Thank you!

Can I take a shower at your location?

Yes! The play-spaces I use have a full bath; however, be aware that time spent in the shower counts as session time, so book accordingly.

How do I avoid scammers who pretend to be you online?

If new, contact me via my contact form on this site. I advertise on Tryst and DickieVirgin only. Both ads lead you back to my website’s application form. I do not initiate contact via text or DMs. Once you fill out my application, I will respond by email from a @dominasophie.com address. I currently only use text for scheduling details and directions on the day of our appointment. I only respond to DMs on my Loyalfans. Only connect with me via the payment sites and social links listed on my website.

Do you take same day appointments?

Sorry, no same day appointments.

What types of sessions do you offer?

Head to my Tribute page for a list of all offerings, in-person and remote. My preferred sessions are in-person BDSM play, of course. It’s why I am here!